In a competitive world where effective communication can make or break opportunities, mastering emotional control is more crucial than ever. Whether you’re stepping onto a stage to deliver a presentation, sitting in a high-stakes job interview, or navigating a challenging conversation with a colleague, the ability to manage your emotions will influence your performance and outcomes. Yet, many of us struggle with nerves that can cloud our judgment and undermine our confidence.

 

Focusing your mind to reach the “green field” is a technique that offers a solution to calm your anxiety and enhance communication skills. By combining awareness, breathing exercises, visualisation and positive affirmations, this approach will empower you to transform fear into focus. Managing your emotions is crucial – read on as we provide actionable steps to help you control your emotions and communicate with confidence. 

 

Understand your nerves 

Emotional control refers to the ability to recognise, understand, and manage one’s emotions effectively, allowing individuals to respond appropriately to various situations. While we all recognize that this skill is vital in both personal and professional contexts—impacting how we interact with others and handle stress—it is also one of the most challenging aspects to achieve.

 

Let’s have a look at what typically are considered stressful situations: public speaking engagements, negotiations, or job interviews–maintaining emotional control can impact performance and outcomes. In these high-pressure scenarios, nerves and anxiety often arise as natural responses to perceived threats or challenges.

 

However, these feelings can be managed through various techniques. We always recommend deep breathing (7/11), visualisation, and positive self-talk (affirmations). By developing emotional control, we can transform anxiety into focus, enhance our communication skills, and foster more productive interactions in our personal lives and professional careers. Ultimately, mastering emotional control empowers you to navigate life’s challenges with confidence and poise.

Transform fear into focus

Let’s first introduce the concept of getting to the green field in GYRA Technique, which we will borrow from Dr Izzy Justice, a leading figure in the field of sports neuroscience, known for his work in enhancing athletes’ mental performance, particularly golfers. His approach focuses on managing emotions and calming nerves, especially before high-pressure situations such as competitions.

 

As we read on the GYRA GOLF website:

“Golf is played over an extensive time period that makes it an emotional and mental endurance test. This means many variables, outside of golf skills, are likely also correlated to performance.” 

 

The Greenfield Technique, as applied by Dr. Justice emphasises the importance of emotional control in sports. It integrates neuroscience principles to help athletes understand and regulate their mental states, thereby improving focus and resilience. 

 

Key aspects of this technique include the understanding and categorisation of brain activity, which allows individuals to recognise their emotional states and how these states affect performance. Following this analysis, calming techniques are introduced to help regulate these emotions. The Greenfield Technique, for instance, incorporates practical exercises such as deep breathing and visualisation, which are designed to assist athletes in transitioning from a “red” state—characterised by heightened anxiety and stress—to a “green” state of calm and focus. By practicing these techniques regularly, golfers can learn to manage their emotional responses effectively, enabling them to perform at their best under pressure. And the great news is that you can apply these strategies in your own life as well! Whether you’re facing a challenging presentation or a stressful situation, these methods can help you maintain composure and enhance your performance.

Apply

Implementing the Green Field technique involves a series of steps designed to help you manage anxiety and enhance emotional control: 

 

Identify your triggers—situations or thoughts that provoke anxiety, such as public speaking or high-stakes meetings. Keeping a journal can help you pinpoint these triggers. 

 

Practicing deep breathing exercises– a simple method is the 4-7-8 technique: inhale deeply through your nose for four counts, hold for seven counts, and exhale slowly through your mouth for eight counts. Repeat this cycle several times to calm your nervous system. 

 

Visualise a successful outcome–picture yourself confidently navigating the situation, focusing on the details—your body language, the reactions of others, and the positive feelings associated with success. This mental rehearsal can significantly boost your confidence!

Use positive affirmations to reinforce your self-belief. In psychology, the term  can refer to the process of reinforcing personal values and self-identity, and can be particularly useful as confidence boosters. Phrases like “I am calm and confident” or “I handle challenges with ease” can help shift your mindset.

Regular practice of these steps will prepare you for stressful situations but also builds lasting emotional control skills, empowering you to face challenges with greater resilience and confidence.

 

Feeling jitters?

Believe it or not, your nerves can actually work for you rather than against you. Nervous energy signals that what you’re about to do matters. That adrenaline rush can sharpen your focus, infuse your delivery with energy, and even enhance your connection with the audience. This brings up an important question: what significance do you attribute to those feelings before you present? 

 

Instead of trying to suppress your nerves, consider channeling them into sheer enthusiasm. Take a few deep breaths and embrace that energy. Next time those butterflies show up – try to coerce them into flying in formation. Stay calm; they could very well be your hidden superpower!

Embrace your potential

As golfers face mental challenges on the course, Dr. Justice argues that golf is predominantly a mental game—approximately 93% of it is mental!—where emotional control directly impacts performance. At NxtGEN, we teach that this principle applies to many aspects of your professional performance as well. Recognising the significant role that mindset plays can help individuals navigate challenges more effectively, whether on the golf course or in their careers. By developing emotional awareness and employing strategies to manage stress and anxiety, golfers, and you, can enhance your overall performance and consistency. 

 

Elevate your emotional control and transform your approach to high-pressure situations. At NxtGEN Executive Presence, we empower professionals like you to enhance your communication skills, essential for thriving in any environment.

 

Our proven training solutions will equip you with the tools to convey your message with confidence. Don’t wait to unlock your potential—reach out today and discover the remarkable benefits of our programs. Let’s embark on this journey together and elevate your professional presence!

References: GYRA Golf, https://gyragolf.com/gyra-instructors/